Posts tagged motivation
Therapy or Coaching: Making The Right Choice For You

Potential clients who inquire about therapy and coaching often ask me to explain the difference between psychotherapy and life coaching. Coaches are quick to offer the short answer, which usually goes something like this: "Coaching is for the already whole, emotionally well individual who is future-focused, action-based and not in need of a therapeutic intervention." Therapy is the correct choice for those with a "diagnosable mental illness (e.g. anxiety, depression, addictions, PTSD) and who are in need of healing from past wounds and trauma." Some therapists would say that they don't coach, and coaches will tell you that they don't do therapy. In my humble opinion, when talking therapy or coaching, it's rarely so neat and tidy, and overlap between the two fields does exist. It would be accurate and fair to say that many therapy clients

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NYC Online Therapist + Santa Fe Couples and Individual Psychotherapist, Kimberly Seelbrede, MSW, LCSW is a Licensed Psychotherapist, EMDR Therapist, Relationship Expert + Stress/Anxiety Coach who provides Psychological Consultations in-person and online working with individuals and couples. Specialties include: trauma resolution, addictions, anxiety, depression, relationships, creative, VIP + high-profile clients. She enjoys writing, photography, yoga, travel and pie. For more, subscribe to her newsletter or connect with her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Psychology Today, EMDRIA and her personal website www.kimseelbrede.com or blog.

Managing Your Fears: Rejection, Failure And Success

Does anxiety, excessive worry, self-doubt and fear keep you trapped? The subject of fear comes up often in psychotherapy sessions and manifests in a range of behaviors from complete paralysis to counter-phobic reactions. Fear and a certain amount of anxiety can be your friend when the fear of a particular outcome becomes a motivating factor. For example, imagining the fear of failure is the spark that helps some people perform to their potential. 

This also comes at a cost when we use guilt, shame and fear as a way to launch ourselves towards a goal. Don't be quick to use fear as a motivating factor. Fear is heavy, dense energy. It's best to stay focused on the positive outcome and focus on what you actually want for yourself and your life. That said, don't sweep it under the rug. It's likely to come out in some other way messy way. Learning to identify your fears can be incredibly liberating. The act of naming something takes away its power. I'm afraid of this or that helps remove 

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NYC Online Therapist + Santa Fe Couples and Individual Psychotherapist, Kimberly Seelbrede, MSW, LCSW is a Licensed Psychotherapist, EMDR Therapist, Relationship Expert + Stress/Anxiety Coach who provides Psychological Consultations in-person and online working with individuals and couples. Specialties include: trauma resolution, addictions, anxiety, depression, relationships, creative, VIP + high-profile clients. She enjoys writing, photography, yoga, travel and pie. For more, subscribe to her newsletter or connect with her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Psychology Today, EMDRIA and her personal website www.kimseelbrede.com or blog.